Beauty a cluster of emotions, but interestingly enough it is used to define a singularity, expressing amazement, awe, of what is before our eyes, everlasting, it is used to give comfort, that something is within the standard of uniqueness, I think it's one of the most democratic of words, beauty, as I said is an epitome of expressing, likeability, with a high standard, a probability that many will likely view it as enjoyable too.
Beauty, generally relates to physical attraction, and on this I have to say several things, what is likeable? what is truly beautiful? what are perfect eyes, eyebrows, eyelashes? if we chose the perfect parts separately, and at the end they showed us those parts in one face, what would it look like?, would we crave on it, like it's the most beautiful thing ever?
When you look at models, at their face you can see physical "inaccuracies", everybody has them, not even the most perfect ones are saved; one eye slightly above the other, big ears, size differences in eyes, eyebrows, etc. Many girls choose the most odd couples, because for them, masculinity, is their craving, and those guys might have this rough, "unbeautiful" features, but she might sees him as beautiful, so what is beauty. Personally I find big noses so attractive, I love the noses of jewish girls, they are so beautiful; or not so straight eyes, lol... I'm currently living a phase where I see beauty in every single human being, we all have our weak spots, we all have our sweet or beautiful ones.
Falling in Love, does it begin with beauty? how big a part might beauty be the defining point, in saying I like this girl as my girl (viceversa)? It plays a big role; in a ideal world, one finds Love for the first time, in the first encounter, the first Love ever, as a long time partner, but in reality, it doesn't happen that way. Love is like a combination lock, you experience Love, maybe once or twice, go out some, and you finally determine, what is truly important to you, in the long run. So you make your own combination lock and when you meet someone that person unlocks a number, and the next and the next, at the end, maybe the lock won't be open, but, how many numbers did that person unlock, of those numbers, if we give them an order of importance, how many did they unlock, at the end comfort, security, safetynes, might be some very common things we look for, and many more.
Beauty, is not everlasting, and we realize that, when mother(father) is no longer the love of our life, well it will continue to be an important part, BUT, the Love of our life, has to meet other functions that mom (or dad) can't accomplish. We evolve and determine, the numbers to be unlocked, for me, beauty, becomes less important, but preferably, if she's beautiful, perfect, but, a big but, it should be accompanied with an awesome cool girl with whom we wanna share life, coffee, buying groceries, walking by the hand, and just walk, walk, walk, (and talk too), someone to go out for drinks, pizza, and the list eternally goes on, some of the things on that list may be so awkward, odd, normal stuff, but at the end, the beauty that was initially felt, evolves into many beautiful things more, feelings, that make a lifetime, and at the end it is called Love.
I might do a part III... So what are your locks?
